Getting started

Find love the faith-first way

Altar & Heir is built around trust, intention, and shared belief. Here is exactly how it works — from your first profile to your first date.

  1. 01

    Create your profile

    Tell us about yourself — your denomination, your faith journey, where you are in life, and what you are looking for. A thoughtful profile attracts the right kind of attention.

    Takes about 10 minutes
  2. 02

    Get verified

    Every member completes identity verification before their profile goes live. This keeps the community safe, genuine, and free from fake accounts.

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  3. 03

    Browse matches

    Explore verified profiles filtered by denomination, age, and location. Like someone to let them know you are interested — no pressure, no algorithms pushing you.

    Filter by faith, age & location
  4. 04

    Start a conversation

    When the interest is mutual, open a conversation. Premium members can send and receive unlimited messages — thoughtful, unhurried, and private.

    Premium membership required to message
  5. 05

    Meet in person

    When you are both ready, take things offline. Whether it is coffee after church or a walk in the countryside, the goal has always been a real relationship.

    The whole point

Ready to begin?

Join hundreds of Christians across the UK & Ireland who are looking for something real.